so a few weeks ago i ended up getting tickets to see Dane Cook, my fave comedian. the boyfriend promised he'd take me but didn't realize he won't be going. so he gets upset and kind of pouts. um was i supposed to buy you a ticket? i'm getting reimbursed for my bestie's ticket. am i really supposed to be responsible for him going when he doesn't have the money? i didn't think so.
today, we made plans for after i was done work. he called during my shift and said he was goin to the hat to pick up one of his friends (who i hear doesn't like him anyway). that's 3 hours from where i live. Problem 1-the car is in no condition to go THAT far. the car badly needs and oil change. he doesn't have money for gas to get there and the tires on this car are extremely bald. Problem 2-its a female friend.
he stopped by my store and i told him it was a bad idea to go, just because that car is not in the best shape. sure enough he left anyway.
a few days ago i said i would pay to have the tires changed and rebalanced and he can reimburse me in time. thats not happening at all. i'm not paying for him to drive everyone around town, nor to pick people up. i thought i'd pay for him to use the car to OUR advantage. not strictly his. if i'm paying for anything for his vehicle maintenance wise-my opinion better count. seeing as it didn't-my money isn't getting involved.
my point being-its his car. he has to take care of it. ALL of it himself. when did i become responsible for a car i do not drive?